Published: 2019 & Pages: 352
“Help Me” by Marriane Power is an intriguing exploration self-help culture. Itots Marianne’s personal experiences where she dedicated a year to live by the rules of several self-help books to seek answers that could upgrade her life. Each month, she examines a different book for its principles, the wisdom offered, and its influence on her life. In January, she starts with “Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway” by Susan Jeffers. Power’s life was filled with fears and anxieties that held her back from living life to the fullest. Following the concepts of the book, she stepped outside her comfort zone and confronted her fears. This brought a new shift in her perspective towards life. For February, she moves on to “Money, A Love Story” by Kate Northrup, as she was massively in debt. Through the month, she starts analyzing her relationship with money. However, this self-help formula doesn’t show much of an impact on her financial status, but triggers her awareness about it. Coming to March, the book of the month was ‘The Secret’ by Rhonda Byrne which relies on the Law of Attraction. She tries to apply this concept to win an award, get a boyfriend, and improve her financial situation. But the outcomes were not as expected and left her feeling more helpless. Throughout the respective months, she struggles with different books like “Rejection Therapy”, “F**k It: The Ultimate Spiritual Way” etc. Each book brings out different shades of vulnerability, denial, acceptance, and realization in her life. Some were futile, while others brought temporary changes. The central theme of the book rotates around dependence over self-help books and the realization that life changes require more profound and personal introspection than what’s stated in a book. Marianne learns that happiness cannot be instant or borrowed from others’ experiences but is something that has to grow within oneself. The character development is impeccable. Marianne’s transformation is gradual as she mans the helm of her life from being insecure, anxious, and dependent to moving towards fearlessness, acceptance, and independence. Despite various mistakes and trials, her determination to keep going makes her character relatable and inspirational. The plot intricacy lies in the fact that “Help Me” not only provides insights about various self-help books but also brings out the real-time implications of blindly following them without applying your reasoning. It underlines the fact that self-help is not one-size-fits-all but a personal and individual journey. Conclusively, ‘Help Me’ is a profound read, personifying Marianne’s relatable journey away from the insecurity of false promises given by the self-help industry towards self-realization, acceptance, and personal growth.
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It explores Marianne’s experiences as she dedicates a year to live by the rules of different self-help books.
Her life was filled with fears and anxieties, and she wanted to confront and overcome them.
It brought a new shift in her perspective towards life.
She was massively in debt and wanted to analyze her relationship with money.
They triggered awareness but didn’t show much impact on her financial status.
“The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne, relying on the Law of Attraction.
She tried to win an award, get a boyfriend, and improve her financial situation.
Dependence on self-help books and the realization that life changes require personal introspection beyond what’s in a book.
Happiness cannot be instant or borrowed from others’ experiences but has to grow within oneself.
Her transformation is gradual, moving from insecurity and dependence to fearlessness, acceptance, and independence.