Power of NO; Step-3
Published: 2014 & Pages: 544
6x Steps
Step-3
Don’t let Others Expectations Ruin You
Have you ever found yourself questioning if what you’re doing truly reflects who you are, especially during a project or in a relationship where you might feel pressured to please others? It’s crucial to stop doing things you don’t want to do and start using your assertive no.
If you keep ignoring your true desires and continue doing things you dislike, you might end up disliking the person you’re trying to please or resenting the tasks you’re doing for them. The assertive no not only helps you avoid unpleasant tasks but also prevents others from feeling bad for making you do things you’d rather not.
Think about the last time someone helped you, knowing they didn’t really want to. Did you genuinely appreciate their help, or did you feel guilty for burdening them? You don’t have to conform to other people’s expectations. You are unique; choose a personal storyline that aligns with your wants and needs. If you don’t want to go to university, for example, follow your passions and create your own path.
To discover your path, explore your interests by visiting a bookshop and finding books that captivate you. If you’re drawn to coffee table design books, consider exploring fields like industrial design or architecture.
Listening to your personal inclinations and exploring your interests not only strengthens your mental abilities but also makes you more appealing to others. Enthusiasm is attractive! When people see your passion, they are more likely to trust you, believe what you say, and enjoy your company.
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10x Short Questions
1. What does the paragraph suggest about using your assertive no?
It suggests that using your assertive no can help you stop doing things you don’t want to do.
2. Why might you end up disliking someone if you keep doing things you don't want to do for them?
Continually doing things you dislike for someone may lead to disliking that person or the tasks you’re doing.
3. How can the assertive no benefit you in addition to avoiding unpleasant tasks?
It can prevent others from feeling bad for making you do things you don’t want to do.
4. When might you feel guilty, as mentioned in the paragraph?
You might feel guilty when someone helps you, knowing they didn’t really want to.
5. What does the paragraph say about conforming to other people's expectations?
It emphasizes that you don’t have to conform to other people’s expectations and should choose a path that aligns with your wants and needs.
6. What is suggested as a way to discover your path?
Explore your interests by visiting a bookshop and finding books that captivate you.
7. How does listening to your personal inclinations and exploring your interests benefit you?
It strengthens your mental abilities and makes you more appealing to others.
8. Why is enthusiasm considered attractive, according to the paragraph?
When people see your passion, they are more likely to trust you, believe what you say, and enjoy your company.
9. What lesson does the paragraph teach about following your passions instead of conforming?
It encourages you to follow your passions and create your own path instead of conforming to societal expectations.
10. Why is it crucial to use your assertive no, according to the paragraph?
Using your assertive no is crucial to avoid doing things you don’t want to do and maintain authenticity in your choices.
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