Published: 1997 & Pages: 236
When you realize that your mind is causing you pain and stopping you from fully living in the present, you need to separate yourself from it.
How?
To do this, you must become fully aware of your mind and the power it has over you. Otherwise, you won’t understand the many subtle ways it influences your thoughts, behavior, and happiness.
For instance, to observe your mind, ask: ‘What will my next thought be?’ If you focus on this question, you’ll see it takes a while before the next clear thought arrives. By observing, you create a gap in the flow of thinking.
If you do this often, you’ll notice how much your mind usually occupies you. This is a primary tool for interrupting your mind and separating from it.
The second method is to observe your mind without judging. Judging is an act of the mind, so if you judge something, you’re using your mind again.
For example, if you feel like running in the middle of work, follow that impulse. Your body knows what’s good for it. Then, listen to the voice inside your head that says you should be working, but don’t judge it. Just smile and accept it. This way, you’ll learn to notice your mind without always following its lead.
بسم اللہ الرحمان الرحیم
اردو ترجمہ جلد اپ لوڈ کیا جاےَگا، انشاءاللہ
Because the mind can cause pain and prevent living in the present.
By becoming fully conscious of it and understanding its influence on your thinking and behavior.
Ask, “What will my next thought be?” and focus on it to create a gap in thinking.
How much your mind usually occupies you in the continuous flow of thoughts.
Judging is an act of the mind, and doing so brings you back to using your mind.
Follow the impulse, listen to the nagging voice, but don’t judge or follow its advice; just smile and accept it.
Judging is an act of the mind and brings you back to using your mind.
Smiling helps accept the voice without judging it as good or bad.
It is a primary tool for interrupting your mind and separating from it.
Understanding the mind’s influence is crucial for happiness and separating from its control.