Book: How to Win Friends ; Step-15

Published: 1937 & Pages: 320

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PART-3 of 4
How to Win People

Principle - 4 (Total:12)
Initiate Friendliness

When your temper flares and the impulse to confront someone arises, consider the aftermath. While venting your frustration may offer momentary satisfaction, it often leaves the other person feeling humiliated and defensive. Convincing someone to agree with you doesn’t stem from embarrassing them; instead, it can breed resentment and resistance. Rather than relying on forceful tactics, embrace a more gentle and persuasive approach.

Picture a scenario where you receive notice from your landlord about a second rent increase. Fueled by anger, your initial reaction may be to confront them, labeling them as greedy. Yet, if you pause and follow Carnegie’s counsel, a different strategy unfolds. Commence the conversation in a friendly manner, acknowledging positive aspects of your living situation. Highlight the landlord’s effective management, prompt repairs, or other commendable traits. Only then, in a constructive atmosphere, express your financial concerns.

This methodical and amiable approach enhances the likelihood of a favorable outcome. The landlord is more apt to empathize and contemplate your situation, potentially reconsidering the rent increase. Remember, channeling the warmth of the sun (friendliness) proves more efficacious than the force of the wind (anger). Thus, always opt for the friendly and kind route, paving the way for constructive dialogue and resolution.

بسم اللہ الرحمان الرحیم،
اردو ترجمہ جلد اپ لوڈ کیا جاےَ گا، انشاء اللہ

10x Short Questions

1. Why does the paragraph advise against venting your frustration on someone?

Venting frustration can leave the other person feeling humiliated and defensive.

2. What is the potential outcome if you embarrass someone while expressing your opinion?

The person may resent and despise you, waiting for an opportunity for payback.

3. According to the paragraph, how can people be convinced to change their minds more readily?

Kindness, a friendly approach, and appreciation are more effective than forceful tactics.

4. In the scenario with the landlord, what is the initial impulse when facing a rent increase?

The initial impulse is to confront the landlord, labeling them as greedy.

5. Why does the paragraph suggest starting a conversation with the landlord in a friendly way?

Beginning in a friendly way increases the chances of a favorable outcome and understanding.

6. How does the paragraph advise dealing with the landlord's rent increase notice?

Start by acknowledging positive aspects and expressing financial concerns in a friendly manner.

7. What analogy does the paragraph use to emphasize a gentle approach?

The paragraph compares a forceful approach to the wind and a friendly approach to the sun.

8. Why is the wind analogy used in contrast to the sun in the paragraph?

The wind represents forceful tactics, while the sun symbolizes a kind and gentle approach.

9. What lesson can be learned from the scenario with the landlord?

Choosing a friendly and kind approach can lead to constructive dialogue and resolution.

10. How does the paragraph emphasize the importance of a friendly start in conversations?

Starting in a friendly way is recommended to create a positive atmosphere and achieve better results.

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Book Summary How to Win Friends & Influence People Test-15 (QM)

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1. Why is the wind analogy used in contrast to the sun in the paragraph?

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2. What is the potential outcome if you embarrass someone while expressing your
opinion?

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3. What analogy does the paragraph use to emphasize a gentle approach?

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4. Why does the paragraph suggest starting a conversation with the landlord in a
friendly way?

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5. What lesson can be learned from the scenario with the landlord?

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6. According to the paragraph, how can people be convinced to change their minds
more readily?

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7. What is the potential outcome if you express your frustration openly?

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8. How does the paragraph advise dealing with the landlord's rent increase notice?

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9. How does the paragraph emphasize the importance of a friendly start in
conversations?

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10. In the scenario with the landlord, what is the initial impulse when facing a rent
increase?

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