Book: How to Win Friends ; Step-11

Published: 1937 & Pages: 320

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PART-2 of 4
Make People Like You

Principle - 6 (Total:6)
Give Importance to Others

In the realm of human conduct, there exists a fundamental law that, if adhered to, can lead to an abundance of friends and perpetual happiness. This law is simple: Always make the other person feel important. According to luminaries like John Dewey and William James, the desire for importance is a profound urge in human nature. It is this innate drive that sets us apart from animals and has been instrumental in the development of civilization.

Recognition of our true worth and a sense of importance are universal cravings. Genuine appreciation, not mere flattery, is what we seek. Acknowledging the importance of this craving is crucial. We all yearn for approval and significance in our social spheres. The pivotal question arises: How can we cultivate this sense of importance in others?

One effective approach is to identify qualities worthy of admiration in others. For instance, acknowledging someone’s dedication to fitness by complimenting their well-built physique and inquiring about their workout routine not only fosters a sense of importance but also allows them to share their expertise. This strategy achieves multiple positive outcomes—it provides appreciation, establishes the person as an authority, and enables them to discuss a topic of personal interest. In essence, this simple yet powerful strategy involves recognizing and sincerely complimenting aspects that genuinely impress us about others. By doing so, we not only fulfill their deep-seated desire for importance but also establish a foundation for mutual liking and respect.

 

بسم اللہ الرحمان الرحیم،
اردو ترجمہ جلد اپ لوڈ کیا جاےَ گا، انشاء اللہ

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1. What can bringing genuine appreciation and recognition to others potentially bring into your life?

Countless friends and constant happiness.

2. According to John Dewey, what is the deepest urge in human nature?

The desire to be important.

3. William James stated that what is the deepest principle in human nature?

The craving to be appreciated.

4. What do all of us crave, according to the paragraph?

Appreciation, a feeling of importance, and approval.

5. What is the distinction between sincere appreciation and cheap, insincere flattery?

Sincere appreciation is genuine and meaningful, while cheap flattery lacks authenticity.

6. What strategy can help nurture the deep desire in others to feel important?

Asking ourselves what we can truly admire about them.

7. In the scenario with the person who goes to the gym, what does a sincere compliment achieve?

It makes him feel appreciated and recognized for his efforts.

8. How does the strategy of finding something to admire and giving a sincere compliment benefit?

It makes the other person feel important, establishes rapport, and fosters a positive connection.

9. Why is recognizing and appreciating someone's efforts considered powerful?

It acknowledges their hard work and dedication.

10. What does making someone feel important contribute to in a relationship?

Building a positive relationship by fostering mutual respect, understanding, and connection.

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